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The Little Lilypad is a lifestyle blog mostly written by a mum to two beautiful, cheeky and entertaining daughters. It is sometimes written by the Man on the Pad or by one of our baby bloggers. Occasionally we accept guest posts too. There is frequently talk of sustainable living, saving money, lifestyle and travel. It is hopefully helpful, sometimes funny and always honest.

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Is cost a consideration when having children?

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We were inspired by a discussion on our Facebook page about the choices of having more children, so when Halifax asked us about parents managing their finances responsibly, it made us consider how careful parents need to be.

I vividly remember a friend once telling me that if you waited till you could afford children, then you would probably never have them. I always thought babies were expensive, with the cost of nappies, wipes and clothes that they grow out of every 3 months .... that was until I had a 7 year old. When the children are little, you have control over their expenditure but as they grow up, the outside influences tend to have an influence on your bank account too. When children reach school age there are the limitless requests for money for this activity or that school trip, not to mention all the after school clubs and birthday parties that ensue.

So our Facebook discussion asked about "how many children is enough" and interestingly alot of responses were more than the average 2.4 children. So many of our followers had 3 or more, with one lady having an amazing 7 children (I was totally in awe) but there was a general consensus that parenting is a hard job on its own without the pressure of providing for more and more children. However, the ultimate response was if you can provide for them (and cope with them), then you should have as many as you like!

Juggling your finances in the current economic climate can be difficult and there is no doubt that no matter how careful we all are, there will always be that surprise cost that comes just when the money has run out. My mum always taught us that if you can't afford it, then you shouldn't have it but if you are responsible, there are some great interest free Halifax credit cards. I am not advocating running up huge credit bills but with 0% interest rates available, it gives you time to repay the card, without additional cost to your family.

I have had a Halifax bank account for years and unlike some banking establishments, they have always provided a great service and been totally transparent, which is what you need from a bank. Having the ability to apply for services online always appeals to me and being able to manage it online is an added bonus for busy parents who don't have the time to physically pop into a bank. Parents are generally busy folk and making sure that we all make the right choices for our family is paramount, whether that is deciding on something simple like a credit card or one of those life changing decisions about having another baby! 

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Disclaimer: Whilst Halifax approached us to write this post, I personally held an account with Halifax for over 10 years and have used their credit card services, so this post is from a personal perspectivie, not a comercial one.

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  1. Sorry but it gets even more expensive the older they get. I have twins and that has always been a drain especially when they had school trips etc,then party invites at the same time.Now as teens they are so costly. Uni looming and I want to hide! REPLY: Oh my goodness Jo, I am in awe at anyone coping with 2 babies, let alone 2 teenagers :-)

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  2. Yep, once they start school, that's when the big money starts! The PTA are bleeding me dry LOL

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  3. My two are very close in age and tend to need new things at the same time. My sister has older children and would agree with you on the comment about the costs of school trips, clubs etc

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