This week is International Baby Wearing Week. Saying that in itself is a bit of a strange concept to me as seven and a half years ago when I had my eldest daughter I dont recall anyone talking about "baby wearing" and I am sure that I would have possibly looked at them in a strange way if they did.

Fast forward to having my youngest daughter and having a sling, baby carrier or wrap (not the tortilla variety before my OH suggests it) is a fantastic way to continue to build the bond with you little one and in my case, reclaim the use of my hands!

The International Baby Wearing website summaries it as "baby wearing simply means carrying or holding a baby or a young child using a cloth carrier".

As a new but allegedly experienced mum, I was surprised by the terminology at first. Anyone that knows me well will know that I love to accessorise anything but "baby wearing" sounded more like a fashion statement than something that would build a bond with my youngest daughter and I.

Anyone that has had a baby will know that in those first few months you either dont want to put the baby down or baby is too comfortable and doesnt want to be anywhere else except with you. This can make it difficult for dad to bond too though and babywearing can help dad put a fussy newborn to sleep but it allows mums like me to reclaim my hands, so I can wash up once in a while. (That dishwasher is still on my Christmas list).

So off I went on my voyage of discovery into the world of slings, wraps and carriers and what I found was certainly not a "one size fits all policy". Baby wearing, like parenting, is a very personal thing and what suits one person, may not suit another.

There is a whole array of baby carriers available to buy and to be honest is can all be a bit overwhelming, but I was determined to find one that suited me and my bambino. I was lucky enough to have a great support network and there is a local sling meet where you can go and meet other mums and try different styles. This was a huge help to me as a novice "baby wearer". Baby wearing needs the support just like breastfeeding, as it would be so easy to give up if you dont have a peer group or support around you. Thats why I am supporting International Baby Wearing week with many amazing bloggers.

Check out Simply Hayley for more baby wearing information and dont forget to check back here later in the week for my continuing journey!

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