I was having a conversation this week with someone I have known since I was a teenager and we were talking about choices you make in life. The things that matter. (for those looking for a business blog or anecdotes should probably switch off now).

The things that matter? Thats a tough one isnt it? It changes from person to person. Some people aspire to be millionaires while others more content to be rich in love and happiness. Did anyone ever say on their death bed "I wish I had worked more" - I doubt it. Its the things we look back on, the things we regret, I was questioned as to whether we should live our lives with reckless abandon but this philosophy seems to give no regard for the others around you. What matters more? Your pursuit of happiness and fullfillment or the collective contentment of your "circle". Google+ has its new social media offering, allowing us to create circles of friends, colleagues and acquaintences but this isnt what I mean.

The conversation made me really reflect on my choices and those that know me personally will know that I made some tough choices at the end of my twenties that caused me both heartache and relief in equal measures. I dont regret that decision, it made me the person I am today so I suppose it depends on the risks you are prepared to take, the decisions you make and whether you can stand by those without regret. I stand by mine.

Having millions of pounds in the bank would be nice, and would buy me a few more pairs of shoes (shhh), but material things dont really matter. Those millions of pounds might buy you a nice house, car, clothes ..... and funeral in the end but whats the point if you have money to feed your pocket but no-one surrounding you to feed your soul.

There is a quote that says "friends are the family we choose for ourselves". Its true and however your "family" is made up, in my mind .... nothing matters more.